This morning, when Peanut fell over, bumping her head, he didn't run over to her and ask if she was ok and coddle her. Because he is a mimic and copies everything I do. And I'm not a coddler.
He threw himself on the floor next to her, started clapping and said, "Nice one, Peanut!"
And instead of crying, she laughed.
It's all in how you react.